Confronting Fears – Facing Forward

Put Fears Behind You…

Eyes Straight Ahead of You!


We have already completed nearly two months of 2017, so it might be a good time to reflect on fears confronted, lessons learned, and progress made – and then take all we have learned to build a plan for success as we focus forward on our journey through the next 10 months of 2017.



One ongoing lesson I have learned: I still unintentionally procrastinate, put things off, and don’t always finish what I start. I think it’s primarily due to taking on too much, getting overwhelmed, becoming anxious and fearful, and then losing my motivation.


For today’s post, I’m borrowing part of a note I published on Facebook awhile back, particularly addressing the issue of facing fears.



As so often happens, I derived inspiration this morning from reading some devotional thoughts. These thoughts then prompted a lengthy reflection and revelation. I want to share this in hopes it will likewise touch others who may need to hear this.


Do you struggle with fear of the known or unknown?


Have you ever considered that Jesus knows what it’s like to be afraid? Think about the mobs of angry religious folks who followed Him around, threatening to injure and kill Him, and the demons and Satan himself who taunted and confronted Jesus.


Think about His time in the Garden of Gethsemane, sweating drops of blood, asking the Father for a reprieve on what Jesus knew must happen.Ā  Yet He then accepted God’s will and prayed for strength to face what was ahead of Him – knowing that suffering and death awaited Him.



I am thinking about many times I’ve been afraid…


I especially remember the terror of being trapped in a second floor apartment because of a raging fire.


I remember praying loudly and specifically, “Jesus, help me! Help me get us out of here alive!” The “us” was my 3-year-old son, my 4-month-old daughter, the 2-year-old autistic child I was babysitting, and myself.


I remember the utter fear and anxiety about the idea of dropping those small children – and my infant daughter – one by one, out that second story window, into the waiting outstretchedĀ  arms of the two police officers who had arrived before the fire department.


Yet… God was there, He knew my fear, He provided His protection and calmed my fears enough to save all the children and myself. I’m convinced His hand and His angels stood between us and the wall of flames which then chased me out the window as soon as I had cleared it in my plunge to the ground.


God was there as I faced the fear of death and He carried me through the valley of the shadow of death for about two to three days before bringing me out to the other side into full consciousness. By His grace and divine intervention, I am alive to tell this story, and to give Him praise and glory for the lives the children and I still have.


Jesus understands fear and distress, as does Father God, Who had to watch Jesus suffer and die. He likewise comforts us as we face hardships and fears, and endure suffering and eventually, death.




For the rest of this post – I thought I would mention fears I have faced over the past year and into this year. Perhaps you can relate to some of them!

*Concerns about family members and friends in a variety of life areas.

*Concerns over relationships with family, friends, and business associates and clients.

*Concerns over personal health issues.

*Concerns over finances.

*Concerns over not having enough freelance work – and then having too much, and not being able to keep up with it.

*Concerns over not meeting expectations, on personal and professional levels.




Yet through all these things – God has been, and continues to be, faithful. I have learned I just need to take my concerns to God, and gain confidence from Him to overcome the concerns. I need to face the fears head on, and focus forward instead of constantly glancing over my shoulder at the fears threatening to consume me.




So What About YOU?


What kinds of fears have you encountered and confronted recently?


How have you overcome them and how will you use what you have learned to build a better action plan for the rest of 2017?





5 thoughts on “Confronting Fears – Facing Forward”
  1. I recently dislocated my hip. I was very scared in the emergency room about what was going to happen, in the short and long term. I turned on my worship playlist and apparently had Jesus on my mind because under anesthesia I told everyone how Jesus loved them. But it made me glad that in my weakest least controlled moment, I was a witness.
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  2. Hi Karen Lee,
    Thanks for this great post about confronting fear.
    There was a time I needed to resign from job due to unjust treatment from my boss, but my fear was how will I survive if I do. Before then I was running a small business that was not bringing in so much income. However, my desire to resign was stronger than my fear of what will be if I do. I eventually kissed the job goodbye to focus on my business. Few weeks later, I was grateful I did resign.
    Most of the times, our fears are not real, we just need to do what we need regardless of fear.
    Thanks for sharing.

  3. Hi K. Lee,

    Your fire ordeal, and eventual escape, must of left you with a lifetime of gratitude. You and the children were lucky!

    Fear’s a funny thing. If we’re not mindful of our thoughts, and we’re not scared about something real (trapped in a burning building, for instance), our ego will come up with some ‘thing’ to worry about. Oh the joy of life!
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