Facing Your Fears and Moving Forward-Part 6 of 9

Welcome back to part 6 of my 9-part  series reflecting on fears confronted, lessons learned, and progress made – and then taking all that new found wisdom to build a plan for success as we focus forward on the second half of 2013.

There’s a brief recap at the end of the post if you want to catch up on the first five parts.

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For today, I want to share what was the original inspiration and title of this series: Focusing or Moving Forward. How many times do we regret past decisions, actions…or really, anything negative about our past, for that matter, and allow those regrets to make us miserable now?

It’s as if we’re walking forward, but looking over our shoulders – or perhaps we’re even walking forward, but totally facing backward! How can we focus forward, focus on our present and our future, if all our energies are instead focused on the past?

When we become discouraged, we could benefit from making some positive affirmations and speaking them out loud on a regular basis – and truly believe them and act on them, to help us change our mindset.

Once again, I want to draw from the wisdom of Joyce Meyer, using her suggestions – try saying these on a daily basis – or whenever you feel discouragement threatening to overwhelm you:

I am not going to live in bondage anymore.

I cannot do anything about what I have done in the past, but I can do something about my future.

I am going to enjoy my life and have what Jesus died for me to have.

I am going to let go of the past and go on pursuing God from this day forth!

–Joyce Meyer, “New Day New You”  [Day July 5]

Who’s with me?  We can’t continue looking backward and allowing regrets and discouragement to hold us captive, if we truly want to FOCUS and MOVE FORWARD, and take steps toward a brighter present – and future!

Photo credit: Shared with Facebook Public by PIQ.


Here’s the recap on the first five parts:

*On Friday, 7/5,  I reflected on fears that I have faced in 2012 and earlier this year, mentioned how we often fear both the known and the unknown, and reminded us that Jesus knew what it was like to face fear and provided us with an example to follow in how to handle fear.

*On Saturday, 7/6, I shared the devotional thought, written by author Max Lucado, regarding the connection between worry and fear, and expanded on what Jesus endured in His battle against fear.

*On Sunday, 7/7, I discussed how our fears and worries drain our energy and prevent us from enjoying our lives.

*On Monday, 7/8,  I addressed how clinging to our past fears and failures often prevent us from moving forward.

*On Tuesday, 7/9,  I mentioned Joyce Meyer’s concept of “stepping out to find out” if we’re heading in the right direction.



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  1. Peggy Nolan - July 10, 2013 Reply

    Hi K’Lee! Stopping by from UBC and I just love the synchronicity of what we’re both posting about. I so want my tribe to move past their fears and embrace the wholesome what is so. Awesome to someone else with the same message!
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  2. Carolyn M - July 10, 2013 Reply

    Hi gal! Stopping by from UBC and I love love love Joyce Meyer and Max Lucado! So refreshing to meet another Christian woman here. I need to go back now and read all your notes about Facing Your Fears and Moving Forward! Thanks so much for writing about this important topic. I know it’s coming in time for me to yield to this moving forward. Regards, Carolyn
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  3. kathi - July 10, 2013 Reply

    K’Lee… I love your blog. So inspiring!!! Thank you!!! I agree we cannot be focused on two directions and forward is a much better place to be looking.

  4. Karen Richards - July 10, 2013 Reply

    I agree. Don’t let your fears of your past hold you back. Live in the present with a happy attitude and you can expect a better future!
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  5. Hazel@resultscoach - July 10, 2013 Reply

    Love your article K’lee. I recently heard someone say your past is the prologue. If you keep looking back it’s hard to keep moving forward and since you can’t change the past from my point of view letting it go is the best thing to do. Continually holding on to regrets or negatives does more harm than good.

  6. AMummysLife - July 10, 2013 Reply

    Very wise K’Lee. So often fears from the past tends to overshadow the future.
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  7. Author Bek Mugridge (@bekmugridge) - July 11, 2013 Reply

    I LOVE that poster!
    Such a great post, so much to take from it XX
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  8. Sophie Bowns - July 11, 2013 Reply

    I’m not religious, but I always think its a good idea to have no regrets in life! Some really wise words here 🙂
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  9. Heather - July 11, 2013 Reply

    I don’t think I have any regrets. I’ve made mistakes, and taken detours in my life, but I cannot “regret” anything because without those experiences I would not be the person I am today.
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  10. Melinda - July 11, 2013 Reply

    I’m with you! Thanks for the inspiration!

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