Change Your Behavior to Reignite Motivation

Motivation Monday:

Behavior and Motivation



[Take 2 on blogging consistently for August! I was a bit busy last week preparing for a weekend trip out of state to visit my granddaughters and making gifts for a bridal shower for my oldest nephew’s fiancee.]


Many times we need to engage in modifying our behaviors to in turn reignite our motivation. This is especially important if we want to accomplish the necessary steps to reach our goals. One of my goals is to blog consistently. Last year I joined an awesome new mastermind group, the Power Affiliate Club or PAC.


One of the first lessons I learned as a PAC member is that I needed to simplify my life and cut back from the 8 (yes, EIGHT) blogs I was trying to maintain, to only TWO. Those two now include this one and my Words of Encouragement blog.


Another strategy I decided would help me blog consistently is to use writing prompts  and ideas from various blog groups and challenges, such as the 30 Day Blogging Challenge.  (Honestly, with all the other demands on my time and creativity, I often experience “brain drain” or “brain fog” and just have difficulty coming up with new ideas to blog about!)



So one of the ideas from the awesome couple, Kevin and Sarah Arrow of Sark eMedia and the 30 Day Blog Challenge, was to share “the story of me and how I got into this freelance career.”  It’s actually a timely topic, because I am in my 10th year as a professional freelance writer and educational consultant, and things are really improving with even greater opportunities than in previous years.


I would have to back all the way up to about junior high school (MANY years ago!) when I first realized I loved to write. That passion for writing stayed with me all the way through college (the first time around, between 1976-1980), into the years I was married, and raised and homeschooled four children.


Then, when I had an opportunity to go back to school and pursue graduate degrees, I found I enjoyed writing, research, and ongoing studies even more. Funny thing is, I never thought of writing as a career path until I “came home” to work back in February 2008. This was after a short-lived career as a speech-developmental therapist, which I thoroughly enjoyed, but what began as a nearby office therapist position became a traveling therapist position of 350+ miles/week. It was too much for me to handle, due to some health issues, as well as the sometimes dangerous winter travel on back roads here in Maine!


Working away every day! [Source: morgueFile free photos]
         Working from home every day!
             [Source: morgueFile free photos]

I’m actually not sure when it dawned on me that I could write for a living, but eventually I discovered a whole new world of freelance and telecommute opportunities. I added a Master of Education degree in 2008 and attained my Doctor of Education degree in June 2017. I am now offering writing and educational consultant services. These include such specialized writing services as instructional design, course and assessment writing, and curriculum development.


Working away every day! [Source: morgueFile free photos]


I have also stopped settling for pitiful minimal pay–we’re talking less than 1 cent per word or less than the equivalent of minimum wage–from clients and companies that, honestly, take advantage of freelance writers. Now, depending on the client or company, I often receive as much as $30 – $50/hour or thousands of dollars per project. I have found that the more education and experience I gain, the better my opportunities are. Now that I’ve achieved my ultimate goal of becoming Dr. K. Lee Banks, I anxious to see what new career doors will open to me.


Working away every day! [Source: morgueFile free photos]


I’ve lost track of the exact number, but I have somewhere around 3,200 published articles online and have two books published; one I authored, Fatherly Reflections, and one I co-authored with Dr. Christine Mason of the Center for Educational Improvement (CEI) entitled Heart Beaming.  I have also authored, co-authored, or reviewed numerous courses. These projects varied from creating individual sample lessons, to entire courses, from scripts and storyboards to full online course content and instructor guidelines.


Working away every day! [Source: morgueFile free photos]


I also write English Language Arts (ELA) reading passages and assessment/test items and content for various clients, mostly for middle through high school students. I have also served as an English Language Arts Subject Matter Expert (SME).

My goal, now that I have become Dr. Banks, is to add online instructional facilitation to my services.


Working away every day! [Source: morgueFile free photos]


So there you go – “the story of me and how I got into this freelance career.” 🙂

So What About YOU?


Do you write for a living or just for fun?


Do you have a job outside the home?


Have you thought about pursuing additional education or training to improve your career opportunities?





10 thoughts on “Change Your Behavior to Reignite Motivation”
  1. It’s lovely to learn more about you and your career journey.

    I cringed at the thought of your eight blogs. When I first started blogging I had five on the go at one time and that was impossible enough, so goodness knows how you managed eight. Happily mine got hacked (I knew nothing of security in this days). I say happily because they were truly dire and deserved to be binned!

    I also loved writing from school but the closest I got to doing it professionally was as a technical author (oh, and I friend of my Dad’s paid me £20 to write 3 children’s books when I was about 12). So blogging serves as “fun” for me really – and way to introduce people to my online businesses.

    Joy Healey – Blogging After Dark

  2. What a great journey on your writing career! I try to post one blog a week. I have been so busy with other things that that is all time will allow. Hopefully, in the near future I can write more. Thank you for sharing your journey.
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  3. We have one thing in common. Having multiple blogs. That is how I started out. Today I have 2 and one of them I will be phasing out and directing it to the website with my name. It kept me hopping but no income.

    I have multiple interests myself and will in time be adding things. I know lots about a lot of things. What I don’t know is how to put the website aspect of it together.

    I have been writing since I was 14. Yes it was my diary. It helped me with creating time for me to catch up with myself. I am working on a couple of Ebooks.

    What I am known for is taking a personal challenge in March 2011 of March Habit Get Dressed To Shoes. I was a 5+ Years pajama junkie living with chronic illnesses like Fibromyalgia living on disability. I had always had difficulty taking care of my home and getting rid of clutter. Day 9 I was struggling so I learned how to take a Selfie and post it on Flylady’s page. Many were cheering me on. This led to a mini blog post with the photo that went on posting each day for 436 consecutive days. I haven’t missed a day of Getting Dressed To Shoes since! From there when I realized I could not do everything that most home keeping sites had on their to do lists. From there the 9 Habits To Keep You From Getting Sidetracked In Homekeeping was born. There are 3 additional levels to work towards for the complete system.

    I am also a gardener. During this time the amount of writing I do is less. We have LONG winters so when the weather is nice, I want to be outside.

    Enjoyed your post

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